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Aug
31/07
Continual Healing
Last Updated on Friday, 31 August 2007 06:00
Written by Melinda
Friday, August 31st, 2007

I went to the plastic surgeon today for a follow up appointment.  He said that things are looking great. I am starting to get feeling back in my lower abdomen with some tingling, numbness, and burning, which I am assured this is normal by the plastics doc. 

I am flat under my chest area where there used to be a roll, and also in my lower belly. But in my midsection, I am puffy and swollen. He states this to be the case for approximately 6 weeks.

I went shopping and found some LizWear shirts and shorts on sale. I bought 4 petites in shorts, and petite small for the shirts. I was amazed since last year I was almost in a size 24! My goodness! I just wanted to shout, “Hey look what size I’m in! WooHoo!” Sometimes it still shocks me. Life is good. No, let me say it again. Life is great.

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Aug
28/07
Post Plastic Surgery
Last Updated on Tuesday, 28 August 2007 06:00
Written by Melinda
Tuesday, August 28th, 2007

I had my abdominoplasty last Thursday, August 23rd. Now its over! I am about 3 to 3 1/2 lbs lighter after the doctor removed the excess skin. And let me say, my stomach is so tight! But it hurt more than the original gastric bypass surgery did. My abs hurt trying to get up, down, in and out of everything… chairs, cars, and I am sleeping half the night in bed and in the recliner. But it is getting easier.

I cannot believe how much different the stomach area is… still a bit swollen but immediately there were some wonderful results. The scar looks a little gross, I must admit. The doctor moved my belly button so it looks gross too. I am on the mend… Now I can’t believe the weight loss journey is over. I weighed in today at 119 lbs. Far cry from over 10 mos ago when I weighed in at 251 lbs. That is a total loss of 132 lbs!

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Aug
19/07
Life Gets Better
Last Updated on Sunday, 19 August 2007 06:00
Written by Melinda
Sunday, August 19th, 2007

Yesterday was a wonderful day. I spent the day on the lake with my boyfriend. He took me out in his boat, and let me just say that I had a terrific time. The water and the landscape was beautiful… and I just kept thinking, “a year ago, this would not be happening.”

Let me explain… first of all, I wouldn’t have a boyfriend a year ago, someone who wanted to spend time with me and offer new experiences of things I have not done before….

Second, I was not an outdoors person. I spent my life indoors because when I was outside, I was too hot and sweaty. I could not stand to be outside for anything. I burned up. But now, I love being out as it warms my bones and skin. I freeze to death inside now!!

I keep saying that “The Best is Yet To Come” and truly its getter better and better as each day and week passes. I love my new life. And, I think it loves me too!

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Aug
10/07
The Power of a Picture
Last Updated on Friday, 10 August 2007 06:00
Written by Melinda
Friday, August 10th, 2007

I keep my before picture in my pocket book. I pull it out every time I have my picture taken so that I can compare the two.  When I feel discouraged of how slow my weight loss appears to be, I resort to the before picture.  It tells a story that the scales don’t.  It shows me how far I’ve come.  It also shows me where I would be should I choose not to change my life including my eating habits.  It is my ultimate inspiration to keep pushing forward, never going back to how life used to be.

When I view my before/after pictures, I always stare in amazement. It’s hard to believe that person in the picture is me.  No longer do I see myself as the overweight, sad, depressed and lonely individual that I was last year. Instead, I feel like I have embraced my new lifestyle beautifully. Yes, it did take a lot of effort, struggle and therapy to get to this place. But life is going great and I am finally a member of it… not just a spectator.My face was so round and it looks like I can’t hardly move due to the obesity. But now, it looks as if I could float on air, glide across a dancefloor with ease and comfort, and pitter patter softly across a kitchen floor. I feel so much more energy and zeal for life, and it makes me hopeful for a bright future. Never a day passes that I don’t thank God for this miracle and gift that I have been given.

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