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Feb
25/10
Saturday – Vegas WLS M&G
Last Updated on Thursday, 25 February 2010 12:29
Written by Melinda
Thursday, February 25th, 2010

When Tim & I arrived at the hotel on Friday, we had several boxes from vendors waiting for us.  My favorite thing in the entire world is to receive packages, as it feels like Christmas!  I told Tammy (T2Nashville) that if she wanted to see Christmas time in the  middle of February, to come on over!  Packages continued to arrive until that late afternoon.  This meant that there would be lots of stuff to take to the Meet & Greet room.

As we stood at the check in desk, I turned to find some familiar faces over by the elevator.  It was Lynnda, Danielle and Toni from BTV.  It was so strange hearing the same voices that I am only used to on the internet, but seeing them in person right before my very eyes!  Of course, being from the south, we hug all of our folks.  So I gave ‘em some love (Suthern’ style) and chatted for awhile.  Sigh.  Those ladies are just remarkable.  Remarkable.  The way you imagine them by spending time reading their posts and watching the episodes…  that is the way they really are!  Down to earth, friendly, and not afraid to reach out to people.   Here’s a pic of the entire group from BTV who got together Friday night.

Saturday morning – Tim & I started really early by eating breakfast (and for the life of me, I cannot remember where or what it was!).  We made it back to the room in time for Tammy to arrive.  All three of us headed on down to the Meet & Greet area so that we could assess the situation before bringing packages.  Then, Tim got the cart from the front desk, loaded it and brought it all to us.  What in the world would I do without him?

We all unpacked boxes, and I scurried around trying to figure out the best method to stack the supplies.  We lined it neatly down the table as quickly as possible and Tim started clicking away on the camera trigger.  We originally had nine vendors to commit but two were not able to ship the products so we’ll be more timely in our asking next time!  One vendor’s goods didn’t have a correct address and it was sent back.  I was quite busy all week trying to make sure everything got there, and make it to the right location.  You could say I was a little stressed!  But, I am so grateful and thankful to the wonderful vendors who provided freebies.  They are:

Blender Bottle, Building Block Vitamins, Celebrate Vitamins, Kay’s Naturals, Labrada Nutrition, and Slimpressions.  A special shout out goes to the folks at Asher’s Sugar Free Chocolates who wanted to take part but due to a snow storm, were unable to ship the products out to us in time for the meeting.  Also, Gosh That’s Good donated some terrific samples which somehow made it to the wrong address.  This made me sad because, THEY ARE FABULOUS!  Slimpressions donated a Skinny Mini shapewear garment, along with providing a promo code (which is still active if you want to order) so attendees could receive a discount.

Many thought that I worked for one of the companies that were represented.  I had to introduce myself and they asked if I was a patient, or worked for a vendor.  NO! I’m a patient…  I just wanted to share some of my favorite products with others who might not know about them.  I hope to work on some signage for the next M&G.

While handing out goodies, I met some great folks.  I can’t even begin to remember all their names, but it was so encouraging to see people who were eager and excited about their weight loss journeys.  My journey this year has been a little boring, “same ole, same ole”, and I needed to receive a breath of fresh air.  I needed rejuvenation, and watching these wonderful people so excited and inspiring just gave me a second wind of fervor.  I want to take a moment to say, “Thank you” to all who shared their stories and time.

I stayed at the table til probably noon, and then cut out because of a headache.  It was also TIME FOR MELINDA TO EAT!  I normally am very regimented in my eating, and every two to three hours, its either meal time or snack time.  Somewhere in between breakfast and lunch, Dave over at Gastric Bypass Barbie’s table made me the most heavenly shake.  I have heard of making shakes with sugar free jello pudding, but must readily admit that I have not done it.  He made pistachio, and it was to die for!  I slurped it down so fast!  If it weren’t for Dave, I probably would have had a low blood sugar episode.  Thanks, Dave!

Speaking of Gastric Bypass Barbie, I have known Cari for several years now.  We met on the Bariatric Eating board.  And, the past year she has been a part of BTV and RF boards as well.  I’ve spoken to her on the phone, spent lots of time communicating via email, and it was finally so nice to put my arms around her and give her the Suthern “howdy doo”.   Her husband, Juan, is such a nice man.  He and Tim hit it off immediately and spent quite a bit of time chatting it up.  Cari is  a go-getter, alright!  She worked hard at her table, put lots of planning and thought into it, and her banners were absolutely amazing (gotta love those hot pink shoes)!  But, then again…  would you have expected anything less from Barbie?  NOT me!!  She sure lives up to her name.

Our RF (Recovering Fatty forum) was represented.  Here is a picture of Cari (Gastric Bypass Barbie), Tammy (T2Nashville, and myself).

That’s all I can think of right now.  I’ve written a book.  But, just one more shout out to all the folks I met from the BTV boards.  Linda Eaves, Rob, Ian and his family, Patti, Lynnda & her husband, Amy & her friend, Danielle, Toni & Mickey, Cari, of course Tammy!  I can’t forget her.  I know I’m missing someone but ya’ll are just the kindest folks.  Thanks for being part of my support system.  You should check out their blogs, too!

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Feb
24/10
The Best Part of Vegas
Last Updated on Wednesday, 24 February 2010 11:09
Written by Melinda
Wednesday, February 24th, 2010

Sorry I’ve not written about my Vegas trip before now.  Truth is, I’ve been busy and exhausted!  I plan on writing about my time in Vegas (some not so good) but wanted to start with the absolute best time I had.  Sunday was our last full day.  Tim & I walked over from the Platinum to the Tuscany Hotel and ate breakfast.  I enjoyed it immensely as the food & service were wonderful.  From there, we started to walk.  And walk.  And walk.  We spent approximately 7 hours out and about as I tried to get in as many sites and pictures as possible.  My feet were killing me!  And once we finally made it home, it was time to eat as lunch was way overdue, as well as supper.

Tim decided we would eat in the hotel restaurant, The Stir.  I had brought my black dress JUST IN CASE.  I mentioned that we should get dressed up on our final night in Vegas, and he agreed.  I got all excited because, I had a date!  I spent extra care with my makeup, my hair, and I peeked in to the living room to see where he was and what he was up to.  He was setting up the tripod, carefully examining through the lens and cranking up the height.  I wondered, “What is he up to?”  After I was ready, I stepped in and he said, “Go on over there, and I’m going to take your picture.”  The drapes were closed, wall to wall, floor to ceiling so I couldn’t see outside.  It was dark in there as the lights were pretty low.  He took a few, and THEN he flew open the drapes.  I could see the lights of Vegas and the plan he had.  All along, that was what he was planning:  to capture a picture of me in my black dress in front of the city lights.

Let me say, we were on the 10th floor.  I’m deathly afraid of heights!  I was skeerd!  But I cautiously stepped back a little at a time, until my hand was touching the rail and the picture looked natural, instead of a quivering frightened shell of a person that I felt!  I didn’t dare turn around or move an inch.  Taking a breath, I smiled and hoped to goodness he got a good picture!  Then he set the timer, and joined me at my side so that we were both in the shot.  Afterward, we ate supper in a romantic restaurant, enjoyed a glass of wine and called it a night.  I still have butterflies thinking of how wonderful it is to be in love, and how romantic Tim can be.

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Jan
14/10
Last Weekend
Last Updated on Thursday, 14 January 2010 07:19
Written by Melinda
Thursday, January 14th, 2010

I have not posted about Saturday’s plans!  Tim & I went to a hockey game, and stayed all night at the Hilton Hotel which was right next door to the stadium.  We checked in around 3:00, and it was nearing 5:00 when we visited the Sportsman’s Grille for supper.  I was feeling especially happy and it seemed that it was a celebratory event…  so I wanted dessert.  Tim ordered the cheesecake.  And oh let me just say, thank heavens for the 3 bite rule!  That was the richest, most decadent cheesecake that I have tasted even since prior to my wls!    I had lots of leftovers from my supper, so we toted them off to the hotel room before the game.  Plus, I had to change into my Cuddl Dudz, lest I freeze to death throughout the course of the game.  Here is a pic of Tim when we got there:

Funny story…  it was our first game to attend this season.  I’m not a huge hockey fan, I just like to watch the fights break out!  The first period ended, second had begun when I finally noticed, that team scored, and our people cheered.  I asked Tim, “What color are we?”  I had been silently cheering for the wrong team the entire first period!  *I was so embarrassed.  Here’s a picture of a fight that broke out.  I love those!

After the game, it was freezing cold!  He thought I would want to go straight back to the hotel, but I decided “Hey! We’re in downtown Nashville, I want to walk down the streets a little.”  We walked around the block back to the hotel.  Let me just say, I WAS STILL UNTHAWING 30 MINUTES LATER!  Here’s a picture that Tim took of me in my scarf.  Notice my eyes are red as I’ve not yet found the setting on my new camera to remove red eye.  But, I could have edited it out.  I said, “NO, I want everyone to see what the cold weather does to me!  It brings the little devil out!”

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Dec
29/09
Let’s Reminisce – Why WLS?
Last Updated on Wednesday, 30 December 2009 08:48
Written by Melinda
Tuesday, December 29th, 2009

The New Year is just a few days away.  We’ll be making resolutions and re-committing to things that we want to see changed.  And, its always a time to stop and reflect on the past year’s events.  I thought that it would be a great opportunity to reflect on where we’ve been, where we are, and where we want to go (not just this year…  but since our life altering wls surgeries).

I’ve been to obesity and beyond…  seems like a dream at times, a nightmare at others.  Loose skin issues, battle scars from the actual surgery, hospital bills/insurance EOBs, oh you name it.  But in general, my weight got out of control and my health was fading fast.  WLS helped me to regain control, become healthy, get my life back, AND MORE!  It helped me to get the life I always wanted.

I’m in maintenance now.  Where the rubber meets the road.  Living with those daily choices, sometimes I fail, sometimes I deserve a shiny bariatric halo.  If I gain 5, I know how to lose 5.  I strive to keep it under control, always taking inventory of weight, measurements, medications, health issues…  for nothing is truly “100 lbs gone forever….”  This is a daily battle we all face.  It’s reality that at any time, something could happen which causes weight gain…  I do the best I can each day to monitor all systems so to speak.

Physically physiqued – that’s where I want to go.  I want to take this year to do some physical activities that I haven’t done before.  Maybe run a 5K, pump some iron, build some muscle…  I want to tone up these abs of flab!

Overall, it has been a wonderful experience.  All the emotional strain that I had in the first year is long gone, mostly forgotten, and its overshadowed much more by the terrific Wow and Non Scale Victory moments that I’ve had…

How about you?  Where ya been?  Where ya at?  Where ya goin?

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